do women expect too much from men sexually?

Sometimes I feel bad for men, well, for the ones that aren’t meeting the high standards many women have for sex. I feel bad for those men that have below average to average size penises. I feel bad for those men that have love wands that lack girth. I feel bad for the men that have boners that don’t feel all that hard. I feel bad for those men that can’t help busting quickly. I feel bad for those men that need longer to recover from their last orgasm so that they can have sex again. I feel bad for men because there are a lot of men out there that desperately want to please their women but due to one or more of the factors above seem to always fall short. I feel bad for men because it seems like there are so many more traits that women judge them for sexually than what we are judged for. Plus, the three main factors that men use to rate women sexually are all things we can easily work on to perfect or fix while the things women judge men on for the most part are difficult to change. (more…)

dynamics of threesomes series – part two

Well, I hope that Part One of this Threesomes Guide for Couples helped y’all some. Here we go with part two dedicated to choices you’ll have to make as a couple before actually having a threesome. Ready?

There are a lot of decisions you’ll have to make as a couple in order to take the threesome from fantasy you talk about to spice up your sex life to reality. A threesome sounds like such a yummy fantasy that everyone should get to experience at least once but having been part of several myself I can say that they often fall very short of that fantasy image we each have in our heads…especially when you are functioning as a couple and not just an individual during a threesome! My advice and tips won’t guarantee that things will go well for you but they should at the very least help you make less mistakes. (more…)

dynamics of threesomes series part one

So. You are one half of a happy stable sexually active couple that is open-minded about the possibility of inviting a third person into your bed? No? Then this guide isn’t for you. If you are a man or woman that is trying to figure out the right argument to present your significant other about allowing a third person into your bedroom this guide isn’t for you either. This post is strictly for those men and women that have already had a conversation about fulfilling their threesome fantasy with their partner. (more…)

reader question – feeling confident while your partner enjoys the sweet nectar of your lady flower!

I answer reader emails regularly but sometimes I feel that some of the questions and answers should be shared.


Reader Email:

I’m new to your blog, and quite honestly, I’ve become obsessed. You touch on everything that has been on my mind lately, but I do have one request that I’m sure a lot of your readers would also like to know. That would be on the topic of oral sex performed on a woman. I hope that you address the issues of how a woman should look “down there” as well as how to be confident enough to look the man (or woman) in the eyes. Also, what if you’re shy about the way you look down there? Any confidence tips? (more…)

why some single men should pay for a threesome

By the time men reach a certain age most of the ones who have yearned to be the center of a female-male-female threesome have but there are those who still feverishly yearn to have that experience. When it comes to threesomes there is no one more down and enthusiastic than the single male that has never had one. This guy’s mind constantly replays a soft pornographic scene where two women are lost in a field with nothing else to do but fondle titties, tongue kiss and playfully let their mouths roam south on one another until he and his valiant penis come to save them. Oh, how in the world would these damsels have gotten any real fucking done if he hadn’t walked in? (more…)

head and more head – part one

Most men love and enjoy receiving oral sex more than anything else in the world. Getting head is right up there with their love of food and sports! Giving head to men that I am in a relationship with is something I have always enjoyed but wasn’t always good at. My education in toe curling fellatio began with Destiny but it was a few long term relationships and my marriage of 10+ years that made me comfortable and confident about giving head. Since I’ve been put on jaw rest by my doctor I thought why not share with you ladies some tricks to help you become more confident when giving head to your partner. I’ll be breaking this down in two detailed posts. This is Part One which covers top three scenarios and a few techniques. Part Two will be a surprise until tomorrow morning. Disclaimer: If you try these techniques you might find yourself on jaw rest too. (more…)