open letter to *him*

I cried tonight when I read your email because I finally “get” it. The past doesn’t matter neither do the what if’s. They weren’t and for that I’m glad.

I wasn’t the woman who with a pregnancy changed your young adult life. I wasn’t the woman who you married and later divorced. I wasn’t the woman who willingly brought a child into this world to keep you as her man. I’m bloody happy that those women weren’t me!

I am a lot of things but destroyer of a man and his dreams never. (more…)